i'm in love with my wife, but she has moved out twice on me. both times b/c of my failing physical health. any advice as to what we should do?

First off, I am so sorry. Both for your health issues and for the wife not being as loyal as I personally think she needs to be. Damn. My heart goes out to you, sincerely. I've personally taken 24/7 care of both my Grandmother and my Mother when they were very ill. (for extended periods of time, until my Mother passed away in my arms.) So I can not understand ur wife's mentality, sorry about that. I imagine I would suggest some type of marriage counseling, or something along those lines. The vows say "til death do we part..." as well as "in sickness and in health..." It sounds to me like maybe she needs to do some soul-searching. Does she *really* want to leave her husband because he is sick, which obviously is NOT your fault? I apologize for not having a better answer for you. I wish you all the best life has to offer. Love, Kel <3

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